Author Archives: Si

Release Your Crap; Let The Awesome You Shine!

Releas­ing is a pretty straight for­ward con­cept: sim­ply "let go" of any thoughts/feelings/problems you might have — just like drop­ping a hand­ful of dirt to the floor. There are many releas­ing tech­niques avail­able. They're rel­a­tively sim­i­lar though, so I'll dis­cuss the two key ones I've found so far. If you're inter­ested, both of these stem from dis­cov­er­ies

How To Never Feel Rejected Again

I'm find­ing that when I get the same thing occur­ring in many areas of my life within a very short period of time it's time for me to learn a very spe­cific les­son. Recently I found myself feel­ing rejected, in var­i­ous ways, in 6 or 7 dif­fer­ent sit­u­a­tions over the span of a week or so.

TV Trains You To Expect The Worst

I was watch­ing an episode of United States of Tara the other day when I had some­thing of a real­i­sa­tion. In case you don't know the show, here's the back story. Tara is a woman with dis­so­cia­tive iden­tity dis­or­der (aka mul­ti­ple per­son­al­i­ties). For the sake of TV, they are 5 (or 6) very dis­tinct &

Stop Bashing Your Head Against The Wall, Dipshit!

Hind­sight is a won­der­ful thing. It enables us to look back & say "Oh wow, that was a com­plete waste of a day.. or 10 years." Wouldn't it be use­ful to know in advance if some­thing was going to be point­less? Or how about just at the time? Even cut­ting that wasted 6 months back to

Talking By Text Sucks (& How)

Par­tic­u­larly in recent years, read­ing & writ­ing have taken over our lives. We com­mu­ni­cate pri­mar­ily by text an increas­ing amount of the time. Face­book, Twit­ter, email, IM, SMS, blogs, forums, the list goes on. There are some very real prob­lems with com­mu­ni­cat­ing by text. Asym­me­try Unless both par­ties are typ­ing an equal amount, any text based con­ver­sa­tion

Hot Dog!

Today I went to see a bunch of dachs­hunds dis­cuss human rights. No no, I'm not mak­ing this up. Really. Check it out for your­self. Any­way, they didn't seem very talk­a­tive — although I sus­pect they made roughly as much progress as the reg­u­lar UN would have if they'd been plonked in a Mel­bourne park

Making Friends Online

I've been online a very long time. Since the late 80's. That's before what we cur­rently know as the net was much more than a twin­kling in a small hand­ful of San Fran­cisco com­put­ers. So, I've had a lot of time to think about the intri­ca­cies & com­mon pit­falls of meet­ing some­one online. The first

Earplugs

I got a set of earplugs a few years back, when I was head­ing off to Burn­ing Man. I saw on them on ebay for, I dunno, maybe 30 bucks. I'm think­ing ok, I'll be there ten nights, I want really good earplugs, since peo­ple run­ning around with airhorns at 7am is a rel­a­tively com­mon

No Soap: The Verdict

For Jan­u­ary I tried an exper­i­ment. No soap when wash­ing myself. Here are my results & thoughts: The first week or so is the worst. My body was obvi­ously flush­ing some­thing out. I don't know what, but it smelt pretty bad. I had a lot of show­ers per day. The first cou­ple of weeks I also

How To End Hate (& its nasty side effects)

Ever heard that say­ing "What you resist per­sists"? Ahh yes. I've noticed a few pat­terns in my life recently. In gen­eral, I've spent the last few years on a bit of a spir­i­tual jour­ney. Clear­ing out, well, pretty much every­thing. The down­side to this is, as I've got clearer, what remain­ing crap is there has