Monthly Archives: August 2008

How Do You Suck?

I was talk­ing with a good friend last night, and she men­tioned that I was a great pro­gram­mer. I found that a lit­tle sur­pris­ing, as despite the unlike­li­ness of a lot of what I achieve, I don't gen­er­ally think of myself in this way. pic by stri­atic I've thought a lot more deeply about this since,

Are You In Love With Your Pain?

A cou­ple of years ago, when I first dis­cov­ered EFT, it changed my life so much, so quickly, I imme­di­ately went around telling every­one I knew about it (Yes yes, I realise now how dopey & threat­en­ing this kind of behav­iour is, I was just super excited) I remem­ber one con­ver­sa­tion par­tic­u­larly vividly. Telling a

Do We Ever Really Do Anything New?

Or is it all just pat­terns, repeat­ing over and over? As you may be aware, I recently went through a breakup. As I've been pro­cess­ing this, I've started to see, very clearly, how lit­tle of what hap­pened with the ex was actu­ally about her. I saw: Pat­terns where she behaved iden­ti­cally to sev­eral dif­fer­ent ear­lier rela­tion­ships (in

The Upside to Abusing Cacao

Last night about 9pm I had a fruit salad. It was tasty. What wasn't so clever was putting raw choco­late sauce on it (cacao pow­der, coconut oil, raw honey). I went to sleep around 1–1:30ish. At 3:30 I woke up, wide awake, and could NOT get back to sleep. Ok, so cacao late at night = bad

Healing Your Dreamtime

Aus­tralian Abo­rig­i­nals have a con­cept they call "Dream­time" (or, more accu­rately "The Dream­ing"). Very loosely speak­ing, this is the infi­nite spir­i­tual cycle that par­al­lels our real­ity, influ­enc­ing & cre­at­ing it. It cre­ated the world we live in, and con­tin­ues to live on, in the present & the future. Now, what's even more inter­est­ing is the

The Importance Of Speech

"If you pro­pose to speak, always ask your­self, is it true, is it nec­es­sary, is it kind?" — Bud­dha I heard this quote the other day (thanks @tinybuddha), and it hit like a ton of bricks. pic by Trove Designs When I was grow­ing up, I was always told "If you haven't got any­thing nice

Thar's Gold In Them Thar Street

I saw this today: Yep, a glo­ri­ous rain­bow! Well, that's one end of it. But take a gan­der at the other end: Have a look at that!! The end of the rain­bow is in front of the build­ing. This means, of course, that there's a pot o' gold some­where in my street! Woohoo! Amus­ingly, there's already

You Are Responsible For Your Parents (.. And Their Parents..)

Who cares who's right about Nature vs Nur­ture? The bot­tom line is — our par­ents affect us. Genet­i­cally, it's pretty obvi­ous. Your par­ents are tall? You play bas­ket­ball. They're black? It's a pretty safe bet (although not 100%, amus­ingly enough) that you are too, and so on. Emo­tion­ally (or environmentally/sociologically), it's a lit­tle more com­plex. And,

How To Kick A Bad Habit In 2 Minutes

So here's a quick trick I learned recently. It's using Neuro Lin­guis­tic Pro­gram­ming. But don't worry about that, it's super sim­ple. I was shown this in terms of break­ing bad shop­ping habits, but I fig­ured, since I'm try­ing out a cou­ple of weeks of 100% raw, why not use it on food places around town

Beauty At Dusk

Win­ter is finally thaw­ing into spring, the days are slowly get­ting brighter. It's finally warm enough to ven­ture onto the bal­cony at dusk. This is what beck­oned to me: (click for larger ver­sion) From here I get a three hun­dred degree view of this every evening. Noth­ing quite like being over­whelmed by the splen­dour of nature.